We've all been there! I kept thinking "I have to eat this now, I will never be able to have it again!" before my pre-op. You I can still eat, just later......it is all a mind thing. Now there are things that I would love that don't work with the band, but if the craving comes, I know that I will PB or it will get stuck and the craving will go away. You can still eat though, but the volume goes way down as well as the appetite, when everything is working the way it should. One of the hardest things to do is to be waiting to start the pre-op diet....wait to start the liquids......wait to start the mushies....wait t start eating "real" food. I know my life was revolving around what and when I could eat it. My first food date was burned into my memory and it was all I thought of, the deprivation, and it drive me crazy. Those that don't wait, but schedule their band right away have it a lot easier. I had to wait 3 months for my date and it was sooooo hard as it was in my mind all the time that I wouldn't be able to eat what I liked ever again. It really isn't like that though, just seems like it. Hope this helps. Just remember, you will always have this forum to bounce ideas or just get it off your chest.
Donna