Hey Renee,
Sorry to hear things aren't great right now, with my 1st fill the first meal I had after the 3 liquid days was also a steak dinner and I ate more than you did, then around day 6 or 8 I really started feeling it!! Interestingly enough this time almost 6 days out from my 2nd fill I think it has loosened up some (or all the swelling from all my PB episodes has gone down) it really is a crap shoot. I am of the opinion that if you're not feeling restriction and you have the money and availability to get a 2nd (or 3rd or 4th) then you should DO IT!!
I think of it like filling your car with gas, if you want your car (the band) to take you where you want to go (weight-lossville) then you have to fill it up with gas... Neglecting your car (band) by letting it sit in the garage unfilled means it's going to take longer to get to you final destination! Again there are things that get in the way of being able to fill up your car (usually money issues) but if you look at a lot of the members here that have met their long term weigh loss goals they have all had many fills (Dolittle, LisaL, Clynn, etc)
Untill the restriction kicks in or you are able to get another fill some people suggest drinking ice cold water before eating to tighten up your pouch.... YOU CAN DO IT BABE!!