Milestones in my Mom's life.. I am making it work...
My mom was a victim of a loan scam targeting the elderly, and as a consequence, after the siblings and I have spent two years of trying to make it right, she is having to declare bankruptcy. The forclosure on the house should be in the next month, and Mom has YEARS of paperwork saved from the last 32 years. It definately looks totally ocd, but before she wouldn't let us look at the stacks in her room. Some of that stuff is 32 years old.
I have literally have to strong arm her to go through every stack in her room, because she wants to read each one to see if she needs to save it. She was an accountant, and thinks of it all as the "mental mindset of an accountant." We have made a "to be shredded" box and sit and shred til the shredders get too hot and we have to stop. I have snuck no telling how much junk and shredded it. She even had bank statements and the checks for over 15 years... ugh.. hope I never see a paper check again.
Anyway, I have managed to pursuade/make her let go of the past paperwork and shred bags and bags of stuff.. Literally over 15 garbage bags of shred now. She is really getting into it now and loves to shred whenever she can.
So, I feel like we have had a breakthrough milestone.
Blessed to be helping my mom....