Hi Taz, I think part of it is the chewing, it's tiring. Eating cold food turns me off. Food getting stuck is a concern and happens. It actually happened to be a dinner, left over turkey (which I absolutely love) and some green beans, I had to get up and walk around, finally it went down. But after that I couldn't finish dinner, had a unsweetened pudding instead.
I socialize at least once a week for lunch or dinner and make healthy choices, eat slow and so far it's been just fine.
I try to make tasty foods, adding spices etc, so that the little bit I can have, tastes good.
Good Luck with your surgery.