I totally agree with you Arlene.
My surgeon sees me monthly, but grills me with questions and if I am losing weight and feeling full after eating the standard 3/4 of a cup per sitting, he won't fill me.
Five weeks post op, I still had some restriction and thought I might be ready for a fill, he said no. I have had two fills now 5cc in my 9cc and restriction is great. I see him on Sept 27th for a check up and if I still feel this way, I don't want a fill.
I am so blessed to be so close to my clinic and have the option of calling when I need to. If I lose restriction and feel that I need a fill, I call, they book me in right away.
Take control back, don't let the fill doctors dictate when you should have a fill, you need to judge for yourself. My surgeon told me, if you are using more willpower than bandpower it's time for a fill.
Good Luck everyone!!!