Welcome Vix!!!!
It is perfectly normal to be scared, I believe we all were before taking the plunge. I was banded here in Canada on June 10th. I did have to go on a pre-op diet for two weeks and it was tough, but you'll get through it, we all do. You will also be required to follow a post-op diet plan set out by your surgeon, it can also be challenging. Both will prepare you for the lifestyle change you are about to embark on.
If you view the band as a tool to assist in healthy eating and weight loss, you are on your way. It's not a miracle, if you make unhealthy choices, it won't work.
I have not had any PBing episodes yet and chew like crazy to avoid it. I have not had a fill yet. I still have restriction from surgery 6 weeks later.
Ask us anything you want to know, that is why we are here. We are one big happy family and support one another!!
Best of Luck!!