Hi Carla! Welcome!!
You will find tons of good information here about lapband and the OCC. My husband had concerns to, but I needed to do this for my health, I am 45 years old and weighed 285 when I made the decision to do it. He said he loved me just the way I was, but I was not healthy or happy with myself.
I did this for me..not him or for my kids...but for me. I needed to make the committment to the lifestyle change. But, my husband and kids will benefit from my decision because I will be around longer for them.
You need to do this for you...give your husband all the information you can...but ultimately it's your decision.
It's one of the best decisions I have ever made..I have lost 60 lbs in 4.5 months...it''s not easy, it's a tool to assist you in changing your eating habits. If you follow the diet plan provided and get fills when required, you will be successful.
Good luck with your decision and if you have any more questions at all, just ask, we are all here to support you!!
Take care!!