To Ramona,
Just wondering why you didn't tell anyone what you were doing? I have discussed my upcoming Lap Band surgery with a few girls at work, but haven't told anyone in my family (besides my husband) either. I see my Mom only about 2-3 times per year, so I was hoping to keep it a surprise and when she's sees me for our visit after my surgery, I will have lost weight and after about a year or so, a different person. I don't like keeping secrets, especially from my Mom, but I am not sure she would approve of such a drastic measure...how did you handle it?
Thanks Cathy