Lisa, I was exactly like you before I got my fill. I wasn't eating as much as I was before the band but I definately did not have restriction. I did get hungry between meals and occasionally still do if I don't eat a well balanced meal but the hungar has definately subsided some. And yes, the amount of restriction you have can depend on that time of the month. I have heard other bandsters say they have GREAT restriction during their period and I have other say the opposite. I guess it just depends on the individual. But don't worry, just a couple of more weeks and you'll be ready for a fill!! Good luck and keep us posted.