I'm sorry but we're all tired of being fat but we don't just wake up from surgery and magically have a new way of eating!!! We will all, at some point or another, fall short of perfection!!! And it's up to us to live and learn!! Julie and I were banded on the same day so I'm sure she was starving and FINALLY had room to eat a decent meal!!! Maybe you didn't eat what she did on day 7 but that's you and you have no right to knock someone down for it. We all have our different challenges that put us in this situation in the first place. I'm sure we all struggle with something different everyday!! Rome wasn't built in a day, Sweetheart!!