Hi Danielle:
The 18 thing is physicial specific. I know there are Dr's in the US who will band younger that that but you have to search. It much easier (if you can afford) it to go to TJ. If it's a question of having insurance pay for it or out of pocket just start making phone calls, or better yet you make a list of the numbers and have your mom call so they take her seriously, just to inquire. If you exhaust you're local area try looking on the internet at out of town/state phone books under the physican section. They probably have a wls catagory to make it easier. You may be able to find someone in the states even if you have to fly it might work better for you if your insurance will cover it. I personally recommend Dr. Ortiz no matter what the cost but understand you are at your parent s mercy with this. Has your mom looked at this site? Really encourage her to do this and even get on and star a thread with her questions. People will jump on board to support you and hopefully if it is right fo ryou it will happen. Believe this!!
Stay in touch honey