Completely understand! I've never been thin, but when I was younger I was always curvy, but athletic. But I danced and we had this ballet teacher that always brought up my weight. She always talked about how great my technique was, but that I was too heavy. I just can't believe that - I did not have a ballerina body, but I was not big. But now I look back and am just amazed at how it impacted my self esteem and weight issues. I told my niece I would let her take dance classes when she's 4, but in the back of my head I think about my experience. I know I can't shield her and who knows if she will get "the family genes", but I don't want her to go through that. I always tell her how pretty she is and how wonderful she is, but people are cruel and it scares me to death. She is a mini me so i'm scared she will get these lovely hips and weight issues as well. But her dad is tall and skinny so hopefully not. It is just amazing the prejudice that is out there. And sadly weight prejudice is one of the last ones that seems to be accepted by many!