Hi all,
I don't know how many of you read Dr. Ortiz's book, but one of his success stories talks about this very topic. She talks about losing friends because of losing the weight. How sad! I too have told very few people because I wasn't sure how they would react. There was NO WAY I was going to tell my Mother!!! I have told a select few of my friends because I knew they would be supportive. My boys know, they are not entirely pleased with the idea, but they support me and my boyfriend is very supportive. The only person I have told in my family is one of my brothers. He too is battling a weight problem. He has been very supportive of my decision to have the surgery. I am looking forward to May 2009 when my son graduates high school and if my parents come down for it, they will have a shock. I have been very heavy most of my life and my Mother has always made me very aware of it. So it will be a nice little shock when they see me after being banded since Ocotber!! WOO HOO, I am so excited! I can not wait until Oct. 20!