You need to get a handle on your stress; it really caused havoc for me and looks like it does for you as well. When you are going through something focus on your breathing, just take in good deep cleansing breaths and think about it, feel it, hear it as it goes through your body. (It really works)
Then, try not to eat when you are totally stressed out. And when you do eat make it a relaxing time for you. Start with a warm cup of soothing herb tea, sit down and make this your time, at your table quite and only positive talking when eating. Put flowers on the table, and make your place setting pretty. I know it sounds weird, but it works. Then when you eat do it very slowly, I know your on liquids, but just move slow.
You’ll get back on track and I know its hard with young ones but really try to make eating a relaxing part of your day. And rent some breathing taps from the library and yoga if possible. You’ll get through it – your mind really affects your body, which in turns affects your band.
If you can’t do everything, no worries – baby steps. Get the herb tea to start your meals and do breathing before you eat while your relaxing drinking your tea. Try taking your meds after a cup of tea and if possible spread them out through the day. Talk to your pharmacist and Doctor for help - they really are good and there may be ways they can help you!
Good luck!