AngieB

Last night Jimmy and I had a good long discussion about this life change. We both agree that it's time and our family needs this. Being over weight has so many limitations. Now it's time for action.

Today is my Wedding Anniversary! Jim, and I have been married for 2 years! Time has a way of passing when you’re in love! I feel so blessed that my husband is supportive of this life changing choice. The more I learn the more I get to share with him. Knowledge is power baby! We talked this morning, while getting ready for work. I used the toilet for a chair, while he shaved, romantic huh! We are going to work toward a "Goal" month for the lap band. So! We decided on June! I am happy to have a month picked out. Although I would jump at the chance to leave next week, this will give me time to read my book, the Lap Band Forum posts, and make plans. In reality, I have much to do in a limited amount of time. Yesterday, I watched Dr. Ortiz perform the procedure on YouTube. I also listened to him talk about liquids for 21 days, then on to food. It's cool to be able to watch videos and see what is happening, what you need to do. There are tons of videos about people’s journeys. I love the internets!

> Hugs to you. I am sure this is a very emotional time for you. Hang in there! Remember you are doing better than you feel! Trust the process! You can do this!! It will get better! When I have hard things come my way, I remember a verse in the bible. "I can do all things. for the Lord Jesus Christ strengthens me. That is what I told myself when I had to leave my 3 month old son at a daycare. As I drove away, I thought to myself, GOD will give me the strength to do this! He did! I did not even shed a tear. I know my situation is different that yours, but I wanted to share it with you. Hope it helps. This is a time for change, and change is difficult for us. Know that you are giving your body nutrition and it will burn from storage what it needs to run. Do your best and the rest will fall into place. HUGS! AngieB

What a grand day to begin a blog! I am hoping this will help me organize my thoughts and set an account of the journey. I have made a decision to be banded. My husband supports me, and is on board for the ride! (I love you Jim.) So now the lesson begins, research, humility, patience, saving, and relationship building. I have been surfing the forum now for a few days. Reading posts, introducing myself, and getting to know others who share this common ground. I've ordered the book, "Banded for Life." Waiting for it to arrive! I’ve been reading up on information in different websites, reading learning as I go. So far so good! With all good things that have to be in a holding pattern, the anticipation is at an all time high. That being said, I am reminding myself to enjoy the process, not rush it. I will have the procedure soon enough. Now is the time to focus on mini goals. (A little self talk ) Jim and I have discussed a time frame. We have some bills to pay off first. I am hoping by June, we will be on a course that will allow us to comfortably and responsibly take on the debt of the surgery. Although, I wish it could be here much sooner, I am staying by if it's not practical it's not spiritual foundation. With all major life changes, "things" take time and I have to surrender to the process. (No pushing Angie! No pushing! Soon enough you will be at the front of the line!) *Note to self, when I want to rush and push, remember to think about what and why you are doing this. How long it has taken you to get to where you are. Glaciers are not formed over night, nor do they melt in one day. Easy does it! Action and short term goals. Goals 1. Read and learn about the procedure, side affects, requirements. 2. Become a active member of the forum. 3. Build friendships. 4. Ask questions and offer support, and help when I can. 5. Practice patients. 6. Work toward budget Jim and I have set! Action 1. Spending time on literature, and reading others accounts/experiences 2. I have introduced myself on the forum! 3. In progress, this will take time. I have added Robbyn as a friend on facebook! 4. I'm asking questions as they come up. 5. This one will take work! No pushing or rushing! * Read not to self! 6. a.We have been making good decisions on spending and putting money into savings. b. Set up a comfortable payment schedule to pay down debt by June.

Yay for you! Good vibes! See ya on the flip side! Angie

Hi Shelby! Realitively speaking, you don't live far from me. :-h I noticed you had your fills done in KC, MO. Did your Dr. use a a floriscope to do them? If you don't mind me asking, how expensive where your fills? I understand that when you have the procedure done with Dr. Ortiz fills are covered for life, the florescope is 100 bucks. That would be great if we/I lived in CA or somewhere a bit closer. Just curious to see what your reasons are for not going back for fills. You look great! I am so ready to have this procedure done. If I could and feel good about the amount going out, I would do it today. Unfortunatly, I have to have a few months to save. I ordered the book "banded for life", so I am planning on reading it as soon as I can get my hands on it! LOL I do hope you are right about the time flying by quickly. Once I have made up my mind, I am all about action! After your surgery what was the pain level like? I have a 15 month old who is a momma's boy. So I am curious how long it will take me to be able to lift him. Any info will be appreciated! Take care and Rock Chalk JayHawk! Angie

Awesome!!! Congrats!

I am so glad you are okay and ALIVE! That would have been a big shocker! I will be looking forward to hearing how it goes! Plus I will be sending waves of good energy your way! I added you on FB! Look forward to getting to know you better. I have a while to wait. Just began saving for the procedure myself. Decided to join the board to set up a support system, and be empowered by those who have gone before me! My hubby has begun reading about the porcedure and has many concerns. He is supportive, but fearful. I have had 2 DVT's, deep vein thrombosis aka blood clot. The last clot was found because I had a PE, pulminary embolism. It landed me in the ICU and nearly took my life. It was a big scare for him. Not to mention my Aunt passed a way 2 days after having weight loss surgery, this past December. Which was a major blow to our family. My entire family is pretty spooked. I will have a lot of family who try to talk me out of this. I feel it is right for me. So I press on. Anyway, as you can see I have the gift of gabb, so feel free to chat with me anytime!

I ordered the book! Thanks for the tip. It had been so long since I had ordered anything from Amazon it took me a while to remember my password! Looking forward to reading the book and meeting members on the board! Thanks for your help!

Hi Robbyn. I noticed you didn't get banded because of a reaction to the general anaesthesia... I bet that was a big bummer. Did you go under and wake up to be dissapointed or did you have a reaction before actually going under? What are your options now if you don't mind me asking?

Hi Jazzy Jude! Thanks for the welcome! I have spent some time this week reading posts. I am so glad this board is here. You look great! I'd like to get my hands on Dr. Ortiz's book, but they are sold out. Lap-Band for Life. Have you read it?

I see you recently had a band anniversary! To cool. You look fabulous! Wanna arm wrestle! LOL JJ I'd like to post a picture of me, when I figure it out! Thanks for the warm welcome!

Hello everyone! I wanted to introduce myself, as I am brand new to this board. My name is Angie! Here is a little information about myself. I am 32 almost 33, birthday is on the 27th of this month! (March) I am a mother, a wife, and full time employee. I have a BMI of 42.2 I am 5'6 What got me here is much the same as what brought you here I am sure. Eating but not feeling full anymore. Not being able to move well, bend over, play with my son, and participate in LIFE! I am in the process of saving for my lap-band surgery/new beginning! I am looking forward to getting to know each of you! Angie