Greetings LapBand community!
I am 21 years old (my birthday is in April) and am a senior in college.
I graduate with my first degree in May and will be heading back home to
live with Mom so that she will be able to be my support system after
my surgery.
My surgery date is Jan 9, 2010 and I am more than excited! I now weigh
268lbs but made the decision to do the surgery when I was 272lbs (which
was my weigh in weight when I went to the doctors for a general check up).
My goal is to be any weight between 140-165lbs.
I have not weighed under 200lbs since I was in the 8th grade but the weird
thing is, is that I was more than active. I was an olympic development
program soccer player (along with being on a club team and a high school
varsity team) so I played soccer for 3 teams at once. On top of that I was
an avid swimmer and was on the varsity team in high school for all 4 years.
Then through out the 4 years of high school I was also a cross country runner,
cheerleader and track runner. And yet I was always over weight, never near
the healthy or proper weight I should be for my age or height.
In college I played 3 years of division two soccer, but this last year I didn't
play due to class schedule and interships, etc.
The heavist I got was 290lbs and that was near and after the time of my fathers
death in July 2008.
I made the decision to have the lapband surgery because I am sick of not
feeling healthy, being over weight, and not being able to do things I should
be able to do. I am dedicated to this life changing process and am slowly changing
habits, but there are still a few questions I have about the over all process, and
I thought asking people who have gone through what I am about begin to go through
would be the best audience to talk to.
1. How much should I expect to lose per week, month, or every 3/5 months?
( a minimum and maximum number would be a great help so I know what to aim
for)
2. What is some stories or advise for times when I am discouraged or feeling like
it isnt working?
3. For those of you who are more than 5 months into this: Is it difficult eating
the way you are eating? Does it seem like this way of eating is going to be hard
to do for the rest of your life? What are some good pointers?
4. Do you ever regret the surgery? Or are you ever embarassed to say that you
had to have a weight loss surgery? What are the things that give you the most
support and reassurance?
Thank you for all of your responses and for taking the time for reading this... your
answers will help me plan and map out my routines and also help me with things that
I have been mulling over in my head.
Sincerely
Jenya