I'VE TOLD A FEW HERE AND THERE AND A FEW HAVE SAID "HEY, I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT DOING THAT ALSO, TELL ME ABOUT YOUR EXPERIENCE"
I WAS AT A FAMILY PARTY 3 WEEKS AGO. MY "MOTHER" YELLED FROM ACROSS THE ROOM, "HEY PAM, HOW MUCH WEIGHT HAVE YOU LOST" HALF THESE PEOPLE DON'T KNOW ABOUT MY SURGERY BEING THERE ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FAMILY. SO I JUST YELLED BACK, "WHY, HOW MUCH WEIGHT HAVE YOU LOST THIS SUMMER" I WAS SOOOOOOOO MAD AT HER. OF COURSE SHE DIDN'T REPLY
WHAT GETS ME I GUESS, IT'S PERSONAL. A CHOSE I MADE. NOT HER. IF I WANTED PEOPLE TO KNOW, I'D TELL THEM. AND BESIDES, AT THE TIME SHE'D ASKED ME, I HADN'T GONE IN FOR A FILL YET. IF SHE KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THE BAND SHE'D REALIZE THE FIRST 6 WEEKS IS ABOUT HEALING, NOT LOSING WEIGHT. GRRRRRRR