I had rough sex! Oh No!

[ellee1]

Ok guys..... I was really stupid and got caught up in the heat of the moment and had really REALLY rough sex, and it was NOT in a bed. Needless to say, nothing around me was soft or cushiony by any means. This was last night. About two hours later, I noticed that my port was not where it usually was, but like under my ribs!!!! Not only that, but I can eat A LOT. This is terrible! I feel like it may have slipped up, or..... what if I caused a leak by being reckless??? I'm so upset.

I was banded Nov. 16, 2006. I HAD (have?) 1.6 cc's in my band. Now it feels like it's not even there. My Dr. is on vaca and I cannot get in until Monday. So in the meantime, I'm freaking out! I talked to the nurse and she said the port could have "flipped". Well, I didn't tell her what caused this because I was too embarrassed.

Has anyone done anything like this or had an impact that may have disrupted the placement of the band?

I'm SOOOO angry with myself and I shoulda been more careful!!!! I worked so hard for this and now I feel like I could have screwed it up and might have to have revisional surgery--- just for one stupid night (1/2 hour!) of passion.

[angelav]

Ok guys..... I was really stupid and got caught up in the heat of the moment and had really REALLY rough sex, and it was NOT in a bed. Needless to say, nothing around me was soft or cushiony by any means. This was last night. About two hours later, I noticed that my port was not where it usually was, but like under my ribs!!!! Not only that, but I can eat A LOT. This is terrible! I feel like it may have slipped up, or..... what if I caused a leak by being reckless??? I'm so upset.

I was banded Nov. 16, 2006. I HAD (have?) 1.6 cc's in my band. Now it feels like it's not even there. My Dr. is on vaca and I cannot get in until Monday. So in the meantime, I'm freaking out! I talked to the nurse and she said the port could have "flipped". Well, I didn't tell her what caused this because I was too embarrassed.

Has anyone done anything like this or had an impact that may have disrupted the placement of the band?

I'm SOOOO angry with myself and I shoulda been more careful!!!! I worked so hard for this and now I feel like I could have screwed it up and might have to have revisional surgery--- just for one stupid night (1/2 hour!) of passion.

You would be surprised alot of thoughts become things so the more you think the port flipped the more likely thats what it did. Think positively until you know for sure. You may have just aggravated it. I did situps too soon and had a similar experience that turned out to be nothing. Remember thoughts are things. Still I will pray for you

[ellee1]

Thanks for your post, Angelav. That is soooo true. I HOPE it's nothing, and the doc always seems to put my mind at ease, but I'm mostly mad at myself for being so careless. Hey.... when you did situps too soon, did you also have the experience of being less restricted? Like as if your band were not filled as much or slipped or something? Or was it just that your port felt different?

You would be surprised alot of thoughts become things so the more you think the port flipped the more likely thats what it did. Think positively until you know for sure. You may have just aggravated it. I did situps too soon and had a similar experience that turned out to be nothing. Remember thoughts are things. Still I will pray for you

[angelav]

Thanks for your post, Angelav. That is soooo true. I HOPE it's nothing, and the doc always seems to put my mind at ease, but I'm mostly mad at myself for being so careless. Hey.... when you did situps too soon, did you also have the experience of being less restricted? Like as if your band were not filled as much or slipped or something? Or was it just that your port felt different?

I was not filled yet so my restriction was hardly there at that point anyway but I did feel some major pain the next two days.

[LoriBecky]

call the doctor while I go poke out my minds eye LOL

[coloratura]

You mean we can never have errr... vigorous...sex again? What a bummer! Maybe I need to rethink this whole band thing! ROFL!

[LoriBecky]

ummmmm vigorous no problem - this is ummmm - you know what - Lori is speechless - which is pretty unheard of LOL

[katjab]

ummmmm vigorous no problem - this is ummmm - you know what - Lori is speechless - which is pretty unheard of LOL

At times I have to ride a golf cart at work to another building with a dirt/gravel road in between. Sometimes it is so rough I can just feel my belly shaking and sometimes fear that I will shake my lap band off.

Just another thought us banders have about the possibilities!!!

[LoriBecky]

My questions before I was banded was.... if I go on a roller coaster will my band slip? I was assured that wasn't the case. Even the VERY violent act of vomiting doesn't automatically mean you're band will slip and the longer it is in place, the more secure it gets. the most common reason for a slip is your band being TOO tight!