whatugonnado Posted September 5, 2008 Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 Just as a warning for those who do not want to know too mcuh about a stranger turn back now!! So, a question... I have been banded for almost four months, everything has been great! I have had three fills and am losing steadily. My question is I was just married and spent a week in Mexico on my honeymoon, after one night my port site started to hurt. Gradually as the days went on (and the nights :-)) it got worse. It is very tender when I move, as long as I hold still it is fine, but standing, walking, getting up and down are very painfull. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?? I'm thinking that my muscles are just sore...LOL, but would like to know if anyone else had this happen?? Thanks for reading to the end. :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
julieburns Posted September 5, 2008 Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 Well let's just get this out in the open. You hit it right on when you said your abs were a bit sore. As you hinted about the night of those on a honeymoon are filled with .....???? Yes if you arn't used to this type of activity or as much it's amazing how much of your abs you use during a good round of sex. Your band is stiched to your ab muscles and by now it has healed into them. No worries since it's been 4 months you are completely healed. ENJOY!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kittycat Posted September 5, 2008 Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 Yes this is a side effect of "nooky". Make sure your husband does not lay directly on your tummy, that hurts! I started exercising to music the other night, some lunges and waist twists and had to stop because my ab muscles started to really hurt and I felt nauseous. Take it easy there newlywed and "top" it up!! LOL!! Congrats on your new marriage!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nicolek Posted September 5, 2008 Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 Hi There Congrats on your marriage. Not to be too blunt but try different positions, you on top or spooning or hanging from a chandelier may help. Have fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whatugonnado Posted September 5, 2008 Author Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 Hanging from the chadelier is what got me this way in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kittycat Posted September 5, 2008 Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 Hi There Congrats on your marriage. Not to be too blunt but try different positions, you on top or spooning or hanging from a chandelier may help. Have fun. You are too funny and great!!! I almost spit out my water at work!!! LOL!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kittycat Posted September 5, 2008 Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 Hanging from the chadelier is what got me this way in the first place. LOL!! HAHA!! LOL!! HAHA!! See what you started !! LOL!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PAMMIE Posted September 5, 2008 Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 Hanging from the chadelier is what got me this way in the first place. LOL YA MADE MY FRIDAY LADIES Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nicolek Posted September 5, 2008 Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 Hi LOL Maybe lots and lots of baby oil.!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momonamission Posted September 6, 2008 Report Share Posted September 6, 2008 I totally enjoyed this post. But than I thought? I must be doing it wrong. I have not had any pain. I guess I will go back to the drawing board. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kittycat Posted September 6, 2008 Report Share Posted September 6, 2008 You go girl!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tadpole Posted September 6, 2008 Report Share Posted September 6, 2008 OMG you guys are hilarious!!!!!! Sounds like this is a good time to get funky and try new things to accomodate the band....ya that's a good reason, to accomodate that band. :-? :good2: Have a great night. Trudy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stormy Posted September 6, 2008 Report Share Posted September 6, 2008 The better question is, will the washer on spin cycle still work, hahahahhah Kidding. Sorry just had too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
julieburns Posted September 6, 2008 Report Share Posted September 6, 2008 The better question is, will the washer on spin cycle still work, hahahahhah Kidding. Sorry just had too :heat: It's getting a little hot in here!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will T Posted September 8, 2008 Report Share Posted September 8, 2008 WOOHOOOOOO on the chandelier.... The swimming pool... in the pool, on the side of the pool... that way there is less pressure on the port. If no pool is handy, spooning in the shower works GREAT. Upside down in the pool is not adviseable, because one or two parties will have to hold their breath for a LONG time. To quote a famous movie from my generation... "It's the pelvic thrust..... that really drives me in-saaaaane....." Anybody else in the mood for the "Time Warp again...?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kittycat Posted September 8, 2008 Report Share Posted September 8, 2008 WOOHOOOOOO on the chandelier.... The swimming pool... in the pool, on the side of the pool... that way there is less pressure on the port. If no pool is handy, spooning in the shower works GREAT. Upside down in the pool is not adviseable, because one or two parties will have to hold their breath for a LONG time. To quote a famous movie from my generation... "It's the pelvic thrust..... that really drives me in-saaaaane....." Anybody else in the mood for the "Time Warp again...?" Always the charmer Bill!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BandDiva Posted September 8, 2008 Report Share Posted September 8, 2008 WOOHOOOOOO on the chandelier.... The swimming pool... in the pool, on the side of the pool... that way there is less pressure on the port. If no pool is handy, spooning in the shower works GREAT. Upside down in the pool is not adviseable, because one or two parties will have to hold their breath for a LONG time. To quote a famous movie from my generation... "It's the pelvic thrust..... that really drives me in-saaaaane....." Anybody else in the mood for the "Time Warp again...?" I didn't know a band was needed for all of this. LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roro Posted September 8, 2008 Report Share Posted September 8, 2008 Hahahahaha... you guys are sooooo funny. I must try that chandelier for my new ab exercises... turn it into a real fun exercise event for all... sure the hubby wont mind!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GirlBarb Posted September 8, 2008 Report Share Posted September 8, 2008 It's chili here this morning, but this topic has warmed me up. I know that as the weight is coming off that the port is so much more noticable. I want to get it placed lower, but don't want to have to have the scar heal again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whatugonnado Posted September 8, 2008 Author Report Share Posted September 8, 2008 Ha ha ha...look what i've started!! Who knew the band would add flair to sex. :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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