Scared?

[tuesdaythecat]

Okay, is it right to be scared? I really want to do this, but I worry it will be like the 26 years of failed diets I have experienced in the past. I really want something that will work. How do you get beyond that fear and take the dive???

[PatU]

Yes, it is OK to be scared! I got banded on 8.21.06 and I have no regrets whatsoever. Dr. Ortiz and his staff are excellent and the whole experience is definitely life-changing. I have a thyroid disease and have been trying to keep weight off for almost a decade myself. I'm down 17 pounds and did not gain any back last week when introducing solids back into my diet so I guess something is working! Recovery from the surgery itself is very fast (at least it was for me) and I am back to my regular routine. In fact, I have more energy now on a lower calorie diet than pre-band.

I can understand why anyone would be apprehensive about the surgery. I was. I think reading these boards and understanding the process as much as possible is the key. I liked the fact that it was totally reversible and didn't rewire my insides. I would do it again in a heartbeat.

PatU

[LoriBecky]

Of course its OK to be scared! Its surgery, its Mexico, and its the unknown! We are all here for you! Feel free to call or email me anytime with questions or reassurances! The people here on the forum are great!

[Guest ladybug]

I think any time a person makes a life altering decision such as gastric banding there are moments of being

[tuesdaythecat]

Thanks for the quick response, this definately helps. I guess in a way you kinda get used to yourself being fat when you have been for 26 years.

[CalKev]

Thanks for the quick response, this definately helps. I guess in a way you kinda get used to yourself being fat when you have been for 26 years.

tuesdaythecat - Just think of the next 26 years of good health and beyond. Forget the fear. I'm scheduled for surgery and can understand. Hey we all get fearful - nothing new - but for example if you have a fear of public speaking once it's over you feel great. If you can focus on the you after the surgery. It can be a very exciting prospect. This is an opportunity that many would love to have and just think we are going to actually get to do it. Yiiippppeeee!

Kevin

[mommyrkr]

All the best rides are scary at some point, but then comes the thrill and the point where you feel like you are flying.

Becki

[tuesdaythecat]

Thanks! My fears are starting to slowly get washed away with feelings of empowerment and actually taking charge of my life in a good way.

[Lapoli7]

Thanks for posting this question TuesdaytheCat.

I am in your boat right now, and after reading all these reply's to your question.

I feel more at ease and know that this will be a great ending and and wonderful beginning!